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Broken Heart Astrology – Astrological Love

We all suffer at some point in our lives from a broken heart. Although many things can cause a broken heart, here we will concentrate on the one linked to romance.

To lose out on romance is a terrible, devastating feeling that makes you feel that your heart is physically broken. Friends will tell you to ‘get over it’ or point out ‘there are many more fish in the sea’, but that isn’t what you want to hear and does you no good whatsoever!

So how do you deal with it? One way is to put into place a spell which will help you deal with the issues that cause the pain. Of course, there are many reasons that relationships break up – the worse one being when the loved one leaves without warning when you felt the relationship was going so well.

Sometimes the relationship ends after discussion, with the other partner saying it’s time to move on and you want it to continue. Circumstances vary in every case, but the one thing that is common in all of these cases is that you can end up with a broken heart!

Working out which spell is right for you and your circumstances is difficult as so many different factors are involved in each individual case. Here we are going to use a more generalised spell which will help you to overcome the initial shock reaction – further spells for specific situations are also available if you feel you need more help.

For this general spell we are going to eliminate the initial feelings of sadness and upset and try to restore your self-confidence. We will also use it to put promise back into your life and attract the good vibes which are at this moment lying dormant.

Firstly you need to gather together all the artefacts you have associated with your ex. Like photos, presents, CD’s, letters and so on. From these items, pick out the ones that you feel give you the most pain and set them to one side. Collect 7 small dark candles (tea lights are fine, but they need to be as dark in colour as you can find). You will also need 1 white candle, some paper and a pen (or pencil). To set the scene out you will also need a large cloth (or scarf), again in a dark colour.

Night-time is the right time to cast this spell, with Friday night giving it a stronger importance to your words.

Choose a quiet room, such as a bedroom to carry out the act. Clean the room and burn some essential oils in a burner. Rosemary oil is best as it signifies remembrance and links to the memories of your ex. It helps if you have a restful CD playing in the background to enhance to mood and aid your concentration.

When you feel ready to begin, kneel on the floor and set out the cloth in front of you. In the middle of the cloth put the items you chose earlier as being the most sensitive in connection to your ex. Set the candles in a circle around the items and light (always make sure candles are on a safe surface and not likely to set fire to anything surrounding them).

Now take the pen and paper and write down 2 lists – 1 with your ex’s good points and 1 with their bad points. While you do this, keep looking at the centre pile of items for further inspiration. When you feel you have written as much as you want, add the lists to the centre pile and begin to chant the following spell:

You once meant something to me

Love was all around us

Now nothing is between us

So take your love and go

I set myself free – I give myself permission to be free of you – my life can now move on – my true love is waiting for me to let go of you – I have my life to live now – so go!

Repeat this 3 times, then take the 2 pieces of paper with the good and bad points and tear them into tiny pieces while again repeating the chant until the pieces are as small as you can make them. Wrap these pieces in tissue and place under your pillow. Blow out the candles and set on a windowsill or shelf. Take the chosen items one at a time and repeating the words ‘YOU MEAN NOTHING TO ME NOW’ put each of them into a box or bag. Once they have all been given the negative emotion, get rid of them – either in the trash or by destroying by fire, but be careful of where you do this, preferably out in the open and in a safe place.

The cloth you used needs to be washed as soon as possible as it contains elements of the incantation you have just used. For the following 7 nights you need to light 1 of the 7 candles each night and repeat your spell in front of it, then allow it to burn out. When you get into bed each evening, hold the tissue with the torn lists and repeat the spell, then put it back under your pillow. After the 7 nights are over, take the remains of the candles and the torn lists & throw away in the trash with the words ‘I’m over you’. As you say the words, feel the total liberation surge through your body and soul.

You are now cleansed of the negative emotions and free to allow new love into your life!